Tuesday Talk

 

Tuesday Topic Of The Day:
Second Chances  




Today, on Tuesday topic I would like to give my two sense about when and/or if they are acceptable with valentines Day right around the corner almost every one is looking for somebody to be romantic with or even just celebrating your anniversary, as well for a great friendship in general.
 
But what would you do or react if that person broke your heart or stabbed you in the back. 
Unfortunately there is a plethora of situations that I can go over and relationships, or even something as simple as a friendship is rare. So the question at the end of the day is simple should you give them a second chance or not? 

Well, as far as that I believe that everyone should have a second chance but that should be earned if you ever done something to the point where you broke anyone's heart or stabbed them in the back. Please understand there is no excuse for that nor is it necessary, it's all about communication and honesty why would you put anyone through such drama when you could just be honest and truthful but never the less you made a mistake that you have to amend for if you want to rekindle a relationship (that's if there is even a chance of rekindling) but start first by giving them some space if they are angry or upset at the moment.

Not to mention there are times where you have unfortunately received the blunt end of someone lying or doing you wrong.

Should you take them back, how long would it take for you to move on? Well depending on the situation you should always have some space between the both of you perhaps reflect on what they did to betray you and compare it to past situations that they put you through, if this is not the first time that your partner, friend, or family member did that it maybe a good idea to cut them off it's could be very detrimental to your well being in general like the old saying goes a leporid never changes there spots. I am not saying people don't change but at the same time don't be so quick to take them back or if you even want to take it a step further just go through the well known

5 Stages of Grief 

Denial 
Denial is your brain's automatic response to unwanted news, according to 
"How to Survive the Five Steps of Grief after a Breakup. " Denial gives your heart time to adjust to the new situation. In the denial phase you may think that your significant other is coming back to you. Everybody spends different amounts of time in the denial phase. It is wise to turn to your friends and family for support.

Anger
It is normal to be angry at your former partner, claims the website Mental-Health-Matters. You may resent her for causing you pain or for breaking up your family. It is important in this phase not to make any rash decisions that you may later regret. Wait until you are less emotional suggests the website, Health~ Guide. Allow yourself to work through your anger, perhaps by exercising or drawing. Expressing your feelings in a journal is a way to release your emotions.

Bargaining 
In the bargaining phase you will try to restore your relationship or perhaps rebuild it as a friendship. This can be disastrous advises the life guide website, Relationship Life Tips. The site reminds those in pain that romantic relationships involve qualities that don't disappear immediately. Trying to befriend an ex, especially soon after the breakup, will only keep the pain of heartbreak fresh. You can salvage your pride by starting anew without your ex.  

Depression 
It's normal to be sad. At this point in your grieving, you come to terms with the fact that the situation is not going to change, claims Mental-Health-Matters. This is a time for reflection. You may want to be alone. Realize the kindness of others is not intended to upset you. Instead, rely on your support system to keep you distracted from your grief, recommends Articles Base. Help Guide reminds those in pain to resist the temptation to turn to drugs, alcohol or food. Those habits can be destructive. Rather, eat well, sleep well and exercise advises Help Guide. 

Acceptance 
It's natural to harbor a place in your heart for loved ones. Special relationships make you who you are. However, in the final stage of grief after a breakup, you will begin to piece together what happened, accept the breakup and acknowledge the part you played in it, advises Help Guide. The site suggests using this as an opportunity to learn from mistakes from the past and carry those lessons into the future. This is the healthiest way to fully accept a breakup and grow as an individual. The pain may not be gone completely yet, but time will heal those wounds. 

Breaking up is not easy. Whether it's a breakup from a boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, life partner or even a best friend, it takes time for wounds to heal. Even if you were the one who initiated the split, there are five stages of grief that you will go through. They are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance, according to Mental-Health-Matters. These are the natural ways for your heart to heal. 

At the end of the day you need to make your best judgment I can't make that for you I know everyone makes mistakes but to do it constantly without even thinking about how that person would feel is selfish there is no excuse to cheat, lie, or to be unfaithful to your partner, friend, or family and always remember the feelings are always temporary nobody is worth risking your health a whole lot of people come and go in your life time but your true ones are your roots.



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Chris

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